Last weekend my entire had the flu! Blake started on Saturday and by Monday we all had it. As mom I was the last to be hit with the sickness and we thought everyone else seemed to be on the mend. Ed took the kids outside to play on Monday evening while I rested on the couch. It was chilly so instead of being outside he backed out the Jeep from the garage and let them play. Ava and Blake played hard, kicking the ball and running all around. We honestly felt the kids were doing better.
Tuesday morning Ava got up around 5:30am and I told her it was still night time and she needed more rest...really mommy needed more rest. At 7am Blake woke up and I finally dragged myself downstairs with him. I waited to hear Ava, figuring she would hear us and want to join the action. Instead I found myself checking on her because she NEVER sleeps in. A little before 9am Ed got up and had a cup of coffee when he thought he heard her footsteps. He went to the stairs and saw her so went up to give her a ride down. When he brought her down he said that she felt shaky. I immediately thought she was hungry because no one had had much to eat lately. I sprang to make toast and get her some juice, but before I started I looked over to see her seizing. I certainly started to panic and didn't know what to do. After 1 minute or 1 1/2 minutes she stopped seizing and I called the doctor. She told me to "calm down and take her to the ER". I quickly called Ed's parents and they once again flew up to our house to stay with Blake. What I did notice was how Blake was obviously upset and his way to deal with this trauma was to go into his "own world of play and imagination". I made sure I kissed him and told him I loved him and everything would be okay, but we needed Ava to be checked by the doctor. He didn't give much of a reaction, but this is typically of him and maybe part of his defense to avoid feeling upset. One thing Ed and I knew going to the hospital was that she needed a through check up and we had to see a specialist concerning Ava's condition when she gets sick. After telling the story of Ava and speaking with the doctor on call Dr. E the nurses proceeded to start an IV line and draw blood. One thing I wish the nurses were better about finding a vein and getting the job done. Now I know Ava is little therefore so are her veins and with her being dehydrated this only makes it worse, but it should not take 15 minutes of her parents having to hold her down to get this accomplished. It is a shame to put a baby through that trauma. After this was done and they gave her nausea medicine to prevent her from throwing up she was in my arms and started to seize. I knew it was coming and told the nurse just before the facial twitching began. She gets a far off stare in her eyes and for lack of better words, "just isn't my little girl". I noticed her body seemed rigid during this seizure, but again had a lot of facial movement. They immediately gave her seizure medicine and then she went into a deep sleep. Ed and I both feel she probably had a seizure in the morning without us seeing it and that is why she slept in so long. At this point we were admitted to the ICU for the night. I dreaded this stay after the last time being such a hard night and now we were all running on low due to being sick. But the good Lord looks out for us if we believe in him and somehow he gave me the strengh and courage to make through the night. I sang "God is so Good" a lot that night. The next day she woke up to get her blood drawn and let's just say that was "unpleasant" for me let alone a 25 month old girl who needed the rest. After that the drama started of getting an EEG. When we were in the ER the day before our Doctor was going to have an MRI done, but the hospital said they could not have her hooked up to machines for it. Luckily the neurologist said instead let's have an EEG done instead. So on Wednesday our nurse said that we would have the EEG at 9:30am, which was great since really I just wanted to take my baby home. Then I was told no the EEG would be at 12:30pm. Next I was told she could get one done at this hospital and would have to go to another local hospital by ambulance. The reason was because this hospital doesn't "like" to do EEG's on baby's because it takes too long and they don't cooperate! Now if we could do that with our jobs wouldn't that just be dandy. We would also have to pay out of pocket for the ambulance because our insurance wouldn't cover it. This is about when I flipped my Mommy hat on and demanded to speak to my daughters doctor. I told her that I appreciate all that she has done for us and I knew she was doing all she could do to make this EEG happen, but if it wasn't done that day by 12 noon I was walking out of that hospital with my daughter. I told her that the expectations for a 25 month old were impossible and I needed to look out for her well being. She assured me that she had been on the phone all morning and had everything in place could I hold out til 12noon. I reluctantly said yes, but 12 was my cut off time. I also found out that EEG needed to be done while she was sleeping and not given sedatives. I could have cried. What were they thinking a 2 year old would just roll over and sleep on command! Ava's doctor came over said feed her anything she wants walk her around the halls and let her run in the room to get tired. We did just that but something else happened during this time too. Our loving Pastor David showed up and lead us in prayer just before the start of the EEG. I saw a miracle happen in front of my eyes. Ava allowed all 30 probes to be placed on her head and only pulled off two. The tech had all but 2 probes in the correct spot and after all was in place Ava turned over in my lap and fell into a deep sleep for the 30 minutes that the test required! Praise God! They got a great and accurate tracing and now we are waiting for results.
Since our time in the hospital last week we have had some hard times. Ava has had meltdowns that are far beyond a tantrum and she has had a hard time sleeping at night. On average she is up 3-4 times a night! We are trying to be extra patient because of the trauma she went through she just needs reassured that we are here for her. This has also made us look deep into our parenting skills and really want to teach our children how to deal with their feelings in a positive way which of course starts through our example. We are trying not to react but step back and handle the situation the way we want them to do. Boy this is a hard task but our way of thinking is the benefit will be for now and in the future.
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